(Source: steampunkgasoline)
There is beauty in truth, even if it’s painful. Those who lie, twist life so that it looks tasty to the lazy, brilliant to the ignorant, and powerful to the weak. But lies only strengthen our defects. They don’t teach anything, help anything, fix anything or cure anything. Nor do they develop one’s character, one’s mind, one’s heart or one’s soul.
He was not my boyfriend. On the other hand, he wasn’t just a friend either. Instead, our relationship was elastic, stretching between those two extremes depending on who else was around, how much either of us had to drink, and other varying factors. This was exactly what I wanted, as commitments had never really been my thing. And it wasn’t like it was hard, either. The only trick was never giving more than you were willing to lose.
I hate it when people are late. It’s one thing to be 15 minutes late…but 45? I was supposed to go to brunch with a friend today at 12. 12 o’clock rolls around, she says to meet at 12:15. I’m okay with that. 12:15 comes, pushed back to 12:30. 12:30, 12:45. Is she really gonna meet me at 12:45? Now I’m not in the mood to eat with her. It really pisses me off when people do this. This place is actually a popular brunch spot, so we’re probably gonna wait some more when we get there. ugh. so freakin annoying. you knew we were gonna meet at 12, so why are you frekin 45 minutes late? i’m so annoyed right now. I don’t even wanna go now. She’s glad i’m not that hungry right now. If I was…i would’ve cancelled the whole thing. I hate waiting for people.
I’m a straight forward kinda girl. If you ask me what im thinking I’ll tell you, no sugar coating. Cause thats not what life’s about. It’s about dealing with the pain that comes along. So if you are going to tell me how you feel, don’t lie. If I ask something, I want to know the truth, not the lie.
Prior to the wedding, you gather a strong wooden wine box, a bottle of wine and two glasses. Then, also before the ceremony, you both sit down separately and write love notes to each other, explaining your feelings on the eve of your wedding day. Each letter then gets sealed in its own envelope. You do not read your beau’s letter. Then, at some point during the ceremony, your officiant explains the process, and the two of you seal the box by taking turns hammering in one nail at a time until the box is closed.
You don’t open the box until your 10th anniversary (or really whatever anniversary you choose. Either way, on the day that you open the box, you both read the letters and drink the wine, remembering how you both felt just days before your wedding day.
❤
aww
das cute
(Source: theplungeproject.com)
